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Sifat kita

Well, kadang memahami diri sendiri itu susah! Memahami sifat kita itu samar! Bahkan cermin-cermin sifat bisa bohong sama kita! apa yg kita lihat tentang diri kita, kadang bukan seperti realita! Fake! Ya, fake! Banyak orang yg pintar menganalisa sifat orang1 di sekitar mereka, tapi kalau ditanya tentang sifat mereka, mungkin kebanyakan dari mereka akan menjawab "hmmm, mungkin orang2 disekitar saya lebih tau".
Well, kita harusnya paham sama sifat kita! hmm, mungkin dengan paham sama sifat kita, kita bisa introspeksi diri! Ya, hmm. Kadang sifat kita, sifat buruk kita yg tidak kita tau bisa membuat orang lain merasa nggak nyaman ada di dekat kita. Dan saat orang lain nggak nyaman sama kita, kadang mereka meninggalkan kita, nggak peduli sama kita! Nah lo, susah kan :)
Terus gimana ya cara yg bisa buat kita tau sifat kita?
Well, here you go--------->



1. Jangan sungkan-sungkan tanya sama teman-teman kita tentang diri kita.
2. Tanya sama mereka tentang sifat buruk kita
3. Tanya sama mereka tentang sifat baik kita :)
4. Tanya sama mereka apa yg harus di rubah dari kita

Oh ya, saran sih. Lebih baik kamu tanya masalah yg begituan sama sahabat atau orang-orang terdekatmu! mereka akan lebih terbuka, lebih paham sifatmu, dan sering berinteraksi dengan kamu!

Oke lah, that's all :)
byeeeeeeeee. see yaaaa

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