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Benefits and Loss of Having a Husband : from my perspectives.

Having a husband can be really fun. But also can be very tough. Imagine devoting your whole life for a guy you just met like? ummm in my case 17 years ago ~. Cooking for him. Sleeping with him. Taking care of his laundries. Also have sex with him to satisfy his needs? WTF. Why do I end up in this life? This isn't the life I planned when I was 17! I wanted to travel the world and meet so many hot guys! But here I am living with one single person, for the rest of my life.

wow

Not to mention, getting pregnant and carry his children, for what? for my babies to take his last name? ew. why would i do that? -_- its me, im pregnant, also its me i give birth. and yet, they carry my husband's name. unfair!

living in a patriarchy world is really hard for a wemen like me~

im independent strong and i know what i want in life. and here i am, i have to pretend that i need this man? ewww No. I have to act like im weak in front of him just to feed his ego!! no way!

i hate it. how do i end up in this life? this isn't something i signed to be born guys!

anyway,,, thats it for today. 

wait a minute! where is the benefit??

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